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Sarah Ward's avatar

Ooooof. I want to frame this piece and put it on my wall, Danusia.

I am not a mother. But when I am in the proximity of my parents, my desire dims. It's painful, and I haven't figured out how to undo the damage of those younger years where I was essentially taught to be an asexual version of myself. My desire was dangerous. "My milk brings all the boys to the yard", so to speak. What would this mean for our Mormon family to have a unbridled daughter?

I'm very much unbridled now, thank the goddess. And should I become a mother in this lifetime, may I give myself the full embodied permission to fuck as loudly as I like. This is, after all, how they would have been made in the first place.

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Megan Lee's avatar

Wow. Danusia this is phenomenal. Exquisitely expressed, passionately felt, delightfully evocative. And makes me ever so slightly uncomfortable... in the best way because it makes me challenge my beliefs. What *is* the line with sex and others' boundaries? Definitely not self-muzzling, for that is tragic. As someone who's long lived in the shadows of shame and sexuality from my indoctrinated cult adjacent upbringing... I CRAVE this liberation. Thank you for being you, thank you for saying the shit too many won't. I appreciate you so so so much. ❤️‍🔥

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