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Sarina Zoe's avatar

I feel you and me and all mothers in this.

Thank you for your indefatigable message πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

Danusia Malina-Derben's avatar

Right here in the thick of itβ€”with you and every mother who’s done performing grace. The message is clear, and this time, we’re not whispering.

Sarina Zoe's avatar

πŸ™ŒπŸ½

Wake Lloire's avatar

I loved this piece. Fierce. I’m guessing by the amount of people talking about motherhood today, that there is a national holiday happening where you are?

We β€œcelebrate” Mother’s Day the second Sunday in May (but I feel similarly about its purpose…)

Danusia Malina-Derben's avatar

Thank you! Yesβ€”Mother’s Day in the UK yesterday, and the air was thick with passive-aggressive flowers. I’ll be ready with a megaphone for May too. This roar’s got range.

Wake Lloire's avatar

πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

Sophia Freigang's avatar

For whatever reason I’m unable to β€˜like’ your replies. So here’s πŸ’–πŸ’– for both!! I appreciate your Words, your Wisdom and your Spirit.

Danusia Malina-Derben's avatar

Your likes and words are so appreciated πŸ‘―β€β™€οΈ

Sophia Freigang's avatar

Thank you SO MUCH for writing this! I felt seen in an underground way, sane-made and validated. πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’

Danusia Malina-Derben's avatar

This means the worldβ€”thank you. I’m all for underground sanity rituals and rogue validation. Here’s to saying the quiet parts out loud. 🫢🏼

Francesca Bossert's avatar

This hits hard, Danusia. I've never been that fussed about Mother's Day, it's always struck me as forced and fake; flowers (or OMG how dare they? a Moulinex!!) to placate us. I'm glad to hear women finding their next level roar. God knows we're going to have to increase the volume...

Danusia Malina-Derben's avatar

Yes, yes, yes. Forced flowers and performative platitudes? Keep them. I want rage in surround sound. And I want it loud enough to rattle the bloody Moulinex off the shelf.

Sophia Freigang's avatar

Fcuking brilliant! And horrifically resonant. 😞πŸ₯Ί We need another Icelandic β€œWomen’s Day Off” Strike (1975) - except in ALL countries!!! πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

Danusia Malina-Derben's avatar

πŸ’―Agreeβ€”one strike’s not enough. We need a full-scale refusal. Not just a day off, but a dismantling. Iceland 1975 was the warning shot. This time, we finish the job. πŸ› οΈ

Megan Lee's avatar

Wow... this is powerful. ❀️‍πŸ”₯

Danusia Malina-Derben's avatar

Takes one to know fire. Thanks for fanning the flames.

Catherine's avatar

Ah yes. Mothers, you are nurturing and bringing up the next generation of humans. A vital job, you're doing so well! Now do it quietly with no help and don't expect to be even noticed, let alone praised πŸ™„

Danusia Malina-Derben's avatar

It’s the oldest trick in the book: call it sacred, then starve it of support. πŸ™„

Julie M Green's avatar

Wow πŸ”₯

Danusia Malina-Derben's avatar

Right?! Burned my fingers writing it.

Rewilding Neurodiversity's avatar

Powerful. Well said πŸ•―οΈπŸ”₯

Violet Carol's avatar

Ooooooof this needs to go viral 😭πŸ”₯

Christen Wood's avatar

I want this written on my walls.