You are magnificent. 💕 I'm so glad you shared YOUR story. You are one powerful woman, mother, and leader. And honestly, breastfeeding triplets?! Especially when born 3 months early?! Wow, that must have been intense. 😳 And yet, you followed your instincts and did it. 🥹💕
Thank you so much—this is the kind of comment that fuels my soul (and maybe gives me bragging rights with my kids)! 💕 And yep, breastfeeding triplets born 3 months early? Intense doesn’t even begin to cover it. Think human dairy farm meets sleep deprivation Olympics. 🥴
But instincts? They’re the real MVP. They somehow kick in when logic would tell you to lie down and cry. Thank you for this—it’s a cheer I’ll carry with me. You’re magnificent yourself. 💕🔥
Wow! I've had two very different breastfeeding experiences with my 2 - the first with a premmie where I did mixed feeding and stopped breastfeeding at 6 months, the second with my daughter who weighed double my son's birth weight and who I fed until 16 months. Both so different. And you have 10 different journeys! I completely agree about the whole range of emotions, from counting down the day until they could have cow's milk and solids to ease the huge weight of their survival on me, to being sad to stop, such a rollercoaster.
Thank you for sharing your breastfeeding journeys Faith! They sound like a rich mix of connection, challenge, and growth.
I’ve felt every bit of what you describe: in my case the loss when breastfeeding ends sometimes felt like a bereavement, a stage I wasn’t ready to leave behind… except on the days when I’d happily declare my body a no-access zone.
And don’t even get me started on the teeth situation—babies love testing just how elastic nipples can be. YOUCH.
You are right. It’s such a rollercoaster, isn’t it? Relief, sadness, and often just plain survival. Sending so much love for all of it. ❤️
Thank you so much! Sharing this piece was a joy and as for the other seven stories… well, they’re definitely a mix of chaos, comedy, and love. 🥰 Stay tuned—I think they might just make their way into future essays!
Loving the leopard print coat and the column Danusia. Such an important topic. I’ve never understood why women would be upset hearing about other’s experiences, and why we feel we have to censor our own for fear of judgement or upsetting others. Breastfeeding, birth, home birth… a positive birth experience. Societal ‘rules’ about discussing all. That’s why it’s lovely to read this… thank you
Thank you so much—and yes, the leopard print was a rare moment 😂 but sometimes you’ve got to channel your inner fierce feline for a topic this important. 🐆
You’re so right—why should sharing our honest experiences ever be something we feel judged for? Birth, breastfeeding, home birth—these are the real stories of life, and it’s about time we stopped tiptoeing around them for fear of upsetting others.
I’m so glad this piece struck a chord with you—your support means everything Amy 💛
The triplets are gorgeous and you’re an inspiration Danusia! I cannot imagine what it must feel like to go through the first few weeks and months. I’m sure there were moments when you surprised yourself by what you’re capable of 💛 I loved reading this piece.
Thank you so much! Those early months with the triplets were… let’s just say, a crash course in survival—and I surprised even myself. 💛 You’re absolutely right, though; it’s wild what we discover we’re capable of when life throws us into the deep end.
So glad you loved the piece—it means the world to hear that. Sending all the love right back to you!
Thank you! I too had premature multiples. Twins for me. But I’ve been there holding on to the hope that every drop meant life. Mine were 28 weeks when born. Each barely a pound. It’s a terrifying experience. I,too, believe we should talk about breastfeeding and everything that comes with it. Men need to know and understand. Women need to know they aren’t alone. It shouldn’t be taboo. It is a way of life. Thank you for sharing your story and the truth of it.
Thank you for sharing this—what a journey you’ve been on. 28 weeks and barely a pound? I understand this so well. It's such a lot to go through and come out advocating so fiercely. I completely agree: breastfeeding and everything that comes with it needs to be talked about. Men need to hear it. Women need to know they aren’t alone. It’s not just a “way of life”—it’s a lifeline.
Sending so much respect to you and your twins. Your story is powerful—thank you for bringing it into this space. ❤️
You are magnificent. 💕 I'm so glad you shared YOUR story. You are one powerful woman, mother, and leader. And honestly, breastfeeding triplets?! Especially when born 3 months early?! Wow, that must have been intense. 😳 And yet, you followed your instincts and did it. 🥹💕
Thank you so much—this is the kind of comment that fuels my soul (and maybe gives me bragging rights with my kids)! 💕 And yep, breastfeeding triplets born 3 months early? Intense doesn’t even begin to cover it. Think human dairy farm meets sleep deprivation Olympics. 🥴
But instincts? They’re the real MVP. They somehow kick in when logic would tell you to lie down and cry. Thank you for this—it’s a cheer I’ll carry with me. You’re magnificent yourself. 💕🔥
😍 Getting to hold up a mirror to reflect your greatness gives me great happiness!
And— yeah, after I shipped that comment I was like… “intense” doesn’t even begin to cover it… your strength is amazing.
Instincts are so amazing. All of your kids are lucky kiddos! 💕
Wow! I've had two very different breastfeeding experiences with my 2 - the first with a premmie where I did mixed feeding and stopped breastfeeding at 6 months, the second with my daughter who weighed double my son's birth weight and who I fed until 16 months. Both so different. And you have 10 different journeys! I completely agree about the whole range of emotions, from counting down the day until they could have cow's milk and solids to ease the huge weight of their survival on me, to being sad to stop, such a rollercoaster.
Thank you for sharing your breastfeeding journeys Faith! They sound like a rich mix of connection, challenge, and growth.
I’ve felt every bit of what you describe: in my case the loss when breastfeeding ends sometimes felt like a bereavement, a stage I wasn’t ready to leave behind… except on the days when I’d happily declare my body a no-access zone.
And don’t even get me started on the teeth situation—babies love testing just how elastic nipples can be. YOUCH.
You are right. It’s such a rollercoaster, isn’t it? Relief, sadness, and often just plain survival. Sending so much love for all of it. ❤️
Wow! What a story! Thank you for sharing! I want to hear the other 7 please 🥰
Thank you so much! Sharing this piece was a joy and as for the other seven stories… well, they’re definitely a mix of chaos, comedy, and love. 🥰 Stay tuned—I think they might just make their way into future essays!
I am in awe of your motherhood - something I will never experience.
I don't know all your children but I am privileged to know you and the triplets. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your words mean so much. thank you. Motherhood is a wild, beautiful ride, and having you in my corner makes it all the more special.
I feel privileged to know you too, and I’m so glad the triplets have the chance to soak up your kindness and brilliance. ❤️❤️❤️
Loving the leopard print coat and the column Danusia. Such an important topic. I’ve never understood why women would be upset hearing about other’s experiences, and why we feel we have to censor our own for fear of judgement or upsetting others. Breastfeeding, birth, home birth… a positive birth experience. Societal ‘rules’ about discussing all. That’s why it’s lovely to read this… thank you
Thank you so much—and yes, the leopard print was a rare moment 😂 but sometimes you’ve got to channel your inner fierce feline for a topic this important. 🐆
You’re so right—why should sharing our honest experiences ever be something we feel judged for? Birth, breastfeeding, home birth—these are the real stories of life, and it’s about time we stopped tiptoeing around them for fear of upsetting others.
I’m so glad this piece struck a chord with you—your support means everything Amy 💛
The triplets are gorgeous and you’re an inspiration Danusia! I cannot imagine what it must feel like to go through the first few weeks and months. I’m sure there were moments when you surprised yourself by what you’re capable of 💛 I loved reading this piece.
Thank you so much! Those early months with the triplets were… let’s just say, a crash course in survival—and I surprised even myself. 💛 You’re absolutely right, though; it’s wild what we discover we’re capable of when life throws us into the deep end.
So glad you loved the piece—it means the world to hear that. Sending all the love right back to you!
Thank you! I too had premature multiples. Twins for me. But I’ve been there holding on to the hope that every drop meant life. Mine were 28 weeks when born. Each barely a pound. It’s a terrifying experience. I,too, believe we should talk about breastfeeding and everything that comes with it. Men need to know and understand. Women need to know they aren’t alone. It shouldn’t be taboo. It is a way of life. Thank you for sharing your story and the truth of it.
Thank you for sharing this—what a journey you’ve been on. 28 weeks and barely a pound? I understand this so well. It's such a lot to go through and come out advocating so fiercely. I completely agree: breastfeeding and everything that comes with it needs to be talked about. Men need to hear it. Women need to know they aren’t alone. It’s not just a “way of life”—it’s a lifeline.
Sending so much respect to you and your twins. Your story is powerful—thank you for bringing it into this space. ❤️